I served as best man in my best friend's wedding this past Saturday. For once I was determined to set aside any fears or doubts I had about the whole thing and focus solely on making sure the wedding was executed flawlessly and painlessly.
Remarkably, that's exactly what happened.
Aside from minor glitches that are not worth mentioning, the wedding ceremony itself was perfect. The church was very hot the day before during the rehearsal dinner, but was tolerable the day of the wedding due to cooler weather and an overcast sky. I had expected the room to be a sweat shop. It was almost uncomfortable, but it wasn't the sauna I had feared.
The reception was lively, well planned and enjoyable. I had almost given up hope that wedding receptions could actually be fun. Now I have a different perspective. Aside from some hokey music choices at the beginning of the reception, the music was adequate. The DJ looked like he was waiting for someone to put him out of his misery, though. But hey, who cares what the hired help thinks anyway?
I heard several people remark that this wedding was the best they'd attended in some time. I can second that. After having been involved as a spectator in other ceremonies, and a groomsmen in another, I can honestly say I've never had a better experience. I wasn't the only person to make this wedding a success, but I'd like to think that my uncharacteristically positive attitude may have in some small way contributed to its success.
Dave and Tara, I wish you all the best. I know you had a good start with this wedding. Now its up both of you to go the distance.
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